Friendshipping
(Keeping the 1 sheep with the flock of 99 is even better than having to go after that lost 1 sheep - "Feed my sheep; Feed my lambs..")

The first time you notice me you'll have to admit,
I have an outside that's as hard as grit.
No amount of force or pressure
Can make me change to something better.
But if by a gentle flame I'm basted,
I'll change to the best popcorn you've ever tasted.

Some people are like popcorn too.
With an outside shell that's hard to get through.
But if you take the time to care,
You'll discover the potential hidden there.
Through being a FRIEND you can help others grow,
By taking the time to let your love show.